by Kirbie Earley | Uncategorized
Today’s big ex-back question: should I get closure from my ex? Closure is a tricky thing. It’s elusive. You think you’ll get the answers to help you feel better about the situation, but the truth is it won’t help at all. Seeking closure will only thwart your efforts... by Gregg Michaelsen | Saving a Relationship
Just what is relationship codependency recovery and is this something you should consider? Let’s find out together! A codependent relationship is characterized by psychological, spiritual, or emotional reliance on someone else. Behaviors are self-destructive and... by Gregg Michaelsen | Meeting Your Ex, Post-Breakup Behavior
You’re working through the Five Step Process to Get Him Back and now you’re wondering if there are signs your ex may want you back. Of course, you’re hopeful and you’ve been doing all the work to get him back, but you’re still not sure. It’s understandable. Reading... by Gregg Michaelsen | Uncategorized
Red flags for marriage often wave high and proud but wearing rose-colored glasses can prevent you from seeing them. Too often, men and women jump into relationships without fully understanding themselves first. This is especially true if you’re young. These are the... by Gregg Michaelsen | Divorce
It’s difficult to know when divorce is the best option. You didn’t get married with a plan for divorce, yet here you are considering it nonetheless. The reasons for divorce are as varied as the people seeking them. Sometimes divorce is the right choice and sometimes... 
by Kirbie Earley | Following the Steps, Step One
What are the rules of no contact, and why should you follow them? Those are two excellent questions that I hope to answer for you today. Regardless of where you look for advice to get your ex back, you find the rules of no contact, but that isn’t the answer you’re... 
by Kirbie Earley | Following the Steps, Saving a Relationship
I’m often asked if ex back coaching works and if it works for everyone, and while I wish my answer could be yes, there are other factors in play. One of these factors is whether you and your ex should get back together. There are circumstances in which reconciliation... 
by Kirbie Earley | Dealing with a Breakup, Post-Breakup Behavior
You’re here today because you’re wondering about dating during a separation. You want your ex back, so why would you consider dating someone else, right? What if he finds out and gets upset? What do you say if he asks? Women avoid dating during a separation for these... 
by Kirbie Earley | Dealing with a Breakup
“We were on a [relationship] break!!” If this immediately makes you think of the 1990’s sitcom, Friends, you aren’t alone, nor are you alone if your relationship is currently on a break. Whether you suggested the break or he did, you now find yourself in the... 
by Kirbie Earley | Saving a Relationship
Searching for articles on how to save your marriage is no fun because it means something bad is happening. You argue constantly. The sex has been gone for months or even years. Counseling hasn’t worked, or he won’t go. Admitting you’re wrong and trying harder hasn’t...
